An Open Letter

This is an open post to certain people who shall remain nameless but who know who they are.

It is not my fault that you are unhappy in your current situation. Bearing this in mind it does neither one of us, any good to try and bring me down into your rut. It is not my fault that I have gotten out of my rut. I have worked too damn hard to get out of it, to allow anyone to drag me back into it. Instead of spending all your time and energy bitching about what you don't like about your life - how unhappy you are with it, and trying to bring everyone down to your level of dissatisfaction - your time would be better spent doing something about it. Bitching about it isn't going to change it. The only thing that will is ACTION!!

Don't be angry and pissed off at me because I changed my circumstances. If you want to change your situation around bad enough then you will find a way to do it. It is better to make sacrifices temporarily in order to be happy in the long run then to be miserable forever, because you are unwilling to give up material possessions even temporarily. I mean how shallow is that? Yes, change can be scary, I know I've been there fortunately, I realized that there are more important things in life. PERSONAL HAPPINESS is the most important thing there is. IF you are not happy then no one else is going to want to be around you. I mean who wants to be around a some who is miserable all the time? When your happy with yourself, people will want to be around you and you will find that that in turn will make you happier.

But enough with the lecture. I know that I have upset you. My intention wasn't to do that, it was only to make you see that it is time to get off your ass and make the changes you know are necessary for your own happiness. I know you can do this.